Nice Guys Finish Last

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 11:56 am Post subject:

And this concludes a guys point of view of the "Circle of Life"
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someone's bitter pill came in the form of a suppository round' here

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Anyone else care to put in their 2 cents? LOL Cool

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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 7:59 pm Post subject:

Here are some quotes I got emailed to me, thought I would post them here....

If a man is alone in a forest without a woman around when he says something, is it still wrong?

God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.
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I see a dr phil episode coming

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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 9:19 am Post subject:

I've met a lot of beautiful women over the past few years, but the most interesting ones were those that I met by chance: on the street, in a cafe or even at a restaurant. These women were also the ones I found most difficult to approach.

The only problem is that the situation is a little trickier. Firstly, you only have a few moments to make a courageous move, unlike a dance club, where you have all night to break the ice. Secondly, because you're in a not so welcoming environment, some women might be afraid of your ways.

Unfortunately, we don't realize that certain factors will deter a woman from accepting an advancement or invitation from a total stranger.

Here are my top 10 common mistakes we make when approaching a woman:

1- Forgetting a woman's comfort zone
Just because you know that you're a nice guy, that doesn't mean she will too. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and the important thing is for you to come across as a harmless guy. A little humor usually helps.

2- Trying to fool women
The second biggest error most of us make is that they don't give women enough credit and respect. Most of us think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you're trying to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and straightforward guy.

3- Approaching without a plan
Some people can improvise successfully, but regardless of the case, having a plan always helps your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

4- Acting like a pervert
It just seems that men keep on sabotaging any good chances they have by keeping their eyes aimed down at a woman's breasts. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto hers. You want her to think that you're the knight in shining armor who's going to romantically sweep her off her feet rather than a dog who's just sniffing any old fire hydrant ready to mark his territory.

5- Using pickup lines
Unless it's a personalized pickup line, I never recommend them -- especially when it comes to meeting women outside clubs. Just be yourself and tell her exactly what's on your mind.

6- Not closing the deal
Sometimes, we put so much effort into approaching a woman (sales pitch) that we forget to ask for a date or a phone number (close the deal). There's no point in putting in the initial effort if you're not going to ask for the digits.

7- Approaching all women
Some of us act like little puppies -- they can't control their actions and pee all over themselves at the sight of new faces. If you get a phone number from one woman, don't make a move on another beautiful woman. Control yourself; if the first woman sees you, you can bet your dog tail that she'll be screening your calls.

8- Burning bridges
Just because she didn't warm up to you, doesn't mean you have to insult her. She might be having a bad day, and you never know when you might run into her again. If you get rejected, just bow out gracefully like a true player by saying, "It's too bad, I guess we'll never know if we'd be a good match."

9- Lying
Some of us have no idea what they're going to say when we approach women, and choose to lie. The most common line used is, "Excuse me, I'm not from around here. Can you tell me how to get to..." Like I said in mistake No. 2, give women credit, they're not stupid -- and what happens when she finds out you lied to her? Who's going to look stupid then and what happens to a relationship that's built on a lie?

10- Thinking it's a marriage proposal
As some of us get nervous when talking to women, and act like they're about to delve into a marriage proposal where their whole life depends on this one woman's decision. By acting in such a way, they come across as desperate. Relax, it's a simple approach, all you need to say is "hi" and make a friend (or a lover)... not a wife.

Like Innocent stated "The asshole does get the chick 90% of the time".

The key is confidence, being confident in yourself will always provail, because if your not, you minus-well wear a sign on your forehead.
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 9:39 am Post subject:

Very Nice Crazychickenboy!

Thats a nice guy's approach! How much luck have you had using this approach?

And since I know you in person, and work with you. Where have the nice guy tips you just gave gotten you in life as of now?

LOL J/K

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